I was always taught that if a couple lives together outside of marriage it was a sin.  I was taught that you will be so close to each other, that neither of you (but mostly the man) will be able to avoid the temptation of having sex. That is the same community that taught me… Continue reading I Fell For The Wrong Guy?

My most recent posts have sparked conversation and a little bit of controversy. I have received some lovely, and hurtful messages. To my surprise, I have received more private messages from my former peers being thanked that I spoke up about purity culture. On the contrary, I also received a few messages filled with scripture… Continue reading Please Stop Assuming Everyone Is Pure~ Purity Culture

Hello fellow readers! The views on my last post got quite a bit more views than my posts normally receives. I always thought of myself as a sexual being. From a young age, sexuality has fascinated me. However, I grew up in a sex-negative environment. I had no direction about this vastly wide topic from… Continue reading Stop Giving Purity (Culture) So Much Value

Attention grabbing title right? I have been absent from writing in general in the past few months. I have stayed on the DL, as I continue to deal with family issues. This past fall, I made the disunion to move in with my boyfriend. Yes, boyfriend. No, we are not married or even engaged yet.… Continue reading We Live Together But Don’t Have Sex

I have shared my journey as a an aspiring modeling/actress on this platform from the very beginning. I thought that instead of sharing a devotional/feel good shoot, I would write about mistakes aspiring talent sometimes make when trying to gain fame. Here are some scams that I have been seeing in the past few months… Continue reading How to Avoid Modeling Scams Part 1

I have been absent from this blog. In fact, I haven’t been writing much at all. No submissions to other publications, no journals, no new blog posts, nothing. First of all, I wanted to post on here to say, “I am alive” and have a new format on my sight. If you are curious, I… Continue reading Update- Jan 2019

October 31, 2018 Halloween is a touchy subject for Messainics. Actually, in my experience, it's is not a 'touchy subject' at all. According to messianic thinking and beliefe, October 31 would be considered to be bad. In fact, to a small majority of Christians Halloween is bad. I love the way I was raised. I… Continue reading Halloween? -Growing Up Messanic