Hello beautiful, I know that you are hurting. You just found out the boy that you have had a crush on for years has a girlfriend and that girlfriend isn’t you. Nothing that I can tell you can help with the pain that you are experiencing. I understand that it hurts to see him with someone else. I have a few things that I want to remind you that may encourage you.
- Take time to mourn. Time will help you heal it’s also perfectly alright to cry, and eat an entire pizza
- I want you to be reminded that this boy not being your significant other has NOTHING to do with inherent value. You are precious because of who your Father is
“For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb.” – Psalms 139:13
- Singleness is not a curse and may only be a season
“There is a time for everything and a season for every activity under the heavens” – Ecclesiastes 3:1
- Most boys are drama, appreciate life with as little drama
- Fully living life consists less of romantic relationships but living in a way of no regrets
- He is not worth the time to be stressing over when you have a greater purpose
- Take this time and develop deep relationships with others
- Take your worries to the thorn
“Cast your anxieties to the Lord because He cares for you” – 1 Peter 5:7
- Study what perfect love is
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” – 1 Corinthians 13:4-8
I promise you that things will get eventually get better ❤
Love,
Lama Leah
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